work=bleh. dj’s last week, and our friendship is slowly returning to the way it was. There’s still some kind of hesitance; a wall of some sort, but still…its better than its been in months. DJ told me that his new job might be just what I need since he’ll be working with all men. Unfortunately, Im worried that a)these men are all geeks and b)that dj has no idea what kind of guy I like.
case in point: last friday, he kept pointing out all these shaggy haired rockstar types with man purses when we were having lunch at the ferry building. I have told dj that i like shaggy hair…but more like shaggy hair that a surfer would have, not some dude w/dark-rimmed spectacles, tight black jeans and converse.
Case #2-on monday, dj met one of the newest members of our team at the weekly business meeting. According to DJ, he spent the whole meeting thinking about if me and the new guy would make a good couple. When I found out he was thinking this, I almost choked. True, this guy is “normal” and I like “normal,” but he is also way too eager to please and point out mistakes in his first week AND I cannot get past the fact that he wore/wears mock turtlenecks tucked into pleated pants. It so sean connery circa ’67. And just 1 step away from sipping brandy and wearing leather loafer slip-ons. Yes, its true i like guys who are a bit dorky, but Im not sure that Id feel comfortable with someone who looked like he stepped out of a 1960s postcard of a fondue party in the swiss alps.
today, b/c we were bored and procrastinating, we deciding to compare online profiles. we would make a good match according to them. this is why i dont trust the online dating thing.
